John F. Kennedy once suggested that “as we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.“
A robust “attitude of gratitude” requires an act that acknowledges a benefactor’s benevolence and communicates one’s grateful feelings. This is part of what Moses is teaching the Children of Israel through his own song in Deuteronomy; he instructs his people on how to cultivate the proper attitude for entering the Holy Land – after all, it is being given as an eternal gift. In settling and cultivating the land, the ritual of offering first ripened fruits or bikkurim at the Jerusalem Temple is a key moment in the agrarian lifecycle – here is a chance to proclaim one’s gratitude in community. Gratitude is often learned through our relation to others; thus tithing to the Levites and the needy are opportunities to cultivate gratitude. Sometimes we must see need in our midst to really appreciate the abundant blessings of our lives.
There is follow up here to the episode of blessings and curses that began its articulation in last week’s reading. Moses comments on the development of the Israelites since their birth as a nation; although their sense of peoplehood and commitment has evolved, they have not yet attained the maturity exemplified by “a mind to understand, or eyes to see or ears to hear.” (29:3) In other words, aging does not always lead to emotional maturation, and this desert generation is still engaged in an ongoing process of “growing up” amidst innumerable challenges on the journey thus far.
To live by gratitude is our greatest challenge and dearest hope.
– Rabbi Aubrey Glazer
Artwork note: This week’s artwork is an abstract depiction of Parashat Ki Tavo‘s dark and despotic venom. The parsha includes threats aplenty and bleak visions of the future that will befall the Israelites should they not “fulfill all [God’s] commandments and statutes.” (Deuteronomy 28:15) Here, the venom dances across the picture like ink in water. Illustration by Christopher Orev Reiger.