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Chayai Sarah — Genesis 23:1 – 25:18

Sometimes life demands a certain clinical decisiveness. In last week’s reading, this need for decisiveness was exacerbated by the heightened tensions that came to the fore in both sibling and marital rivalries. Sarah saw conflict on the horizon with her handmaiden, Hagar (aka, Keturah), vying for power in the family lineage through her son, Ishmael, […]
Sometimes life demands a certain clinical decisiveness. In last week’s reading, this need for decisiveness was exacerbated by the heightened tensions that came to the fore in both sibling and marital rivalries. Sarah saw conflict on the horizon with her handmaiden, Hagar (aka, Keturah), vying for power in the family lineage through her son, Ishmael, so she sized up the future conflict and acted with clinical decisiveness, demanding of Abraham: “Cast out that slave woman and her son, for the son of a slave shall not share in the inheritance with my son, Isaac.” (Genesis 21: 10-11). Although Abraham takes Hagar as a wife in order to create progenitors who will carry forward his legacy, Isaac is the only designated heir.

Abraham eventually reaches the ripe age of 175 years. Even though his actions appear to have caused the death of Sarah, in Parashat Chayai Sarah, Abraham is buried beside his beloved in the Cave of Machpelah in Hebron. Despite all the tensions within family dynamics, matriarch and patriarch are reunited. If only such relief and compatibility could be experienced more fully in life.

– Rabbi Aubrey Glazer

Artwork note: This week’s illustration depicts Rebekah. Although the parsha bears the name of another matriarch, Sarah, most of this week’s narrative is dedicated to her daughter-in-law. Some biblical scholars argue that Rebekah is the most important female character in all of Torah. Professor Carol Meyers (Duke University) writes that “Rebekah’s role as mother of nations looms larger than that of her husband as father of nations…. This fact makes us wonder whether we ought to replace the familiar sequence ‘Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob’ with a more accurate ‘Abraham, Rebekah, and Jacob’ in referring to the leading figures of this period of the ancestors.” Illustration by Christopher Orev Reiger.

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